Attentive or Selfish?

Do you think Japanese people are attentive?

Lots of my non-Japanese friends image (or say, think) that
Japanese people are really attentive to others, kind, and tender.

However, I really wonder if
recently Japanese people are attentive to others.

Certainly, in the past Japanese people were really attentive.
Parents strongly told children not to bother others.
Children were educated so.

Then, Japanese people at that time were really attentive,
sometimes they were too attentive so didn't insist about themselves.
So Japanese people were told to insist thier own opinions more.

Maybe with its rebound,
recent Japanese people get to insist their opinions,
but I think they insist in a bad way.

They insist only their rights,
but they don't fulfill thier obligations
or don't care about others at that time.
This means that they are only selfish.

They insist their thoughts,
but don't think of others and don't care how others feel or think.
Despite this, they make a strong complaint
if others do the same things to them.

They wield only their thoughts, points of view, rights and so on
without others' situations, thoughts, points of view, rights and so on.

This month I had such incidents several times.

Do you think that really Japanese people are attentive?
Is the non-Japanese people's image about Japanese people right?